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加入时间: 2004/09/06 文章: 114
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作者:phoenix 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
We all have lows and highs, that is nature of life.
Give him a hand, lady. This is what he needs now. He is your man, the father of your child, a common soul frustrated in life. He needs some confidence to stand up again.
Is it fair to the wife? Well, the answer depends on one's philosophy of life.
Personally, I feel marriage is more than love/happiess. It is commitment, responsibility, sacrifice. It is about holding hands, cheering each other up in hardness. It is about laughing joyfully in blessing. It is about sharing life - in health or in sickness. It is about shouldering burden alone sometimes, and do it willingly.
Cheer up, lady. Pat his shoulder and show your love and support, because one day, you may need it too.
有这样一则寓言:一天,太阳和风争论谁比较强壮,风说:"当然是我。你看下面那位穿着外套的老人,我打赌可以比你更快让他把外套脱下来。"说着,风便用力对着老人吹,希望把老人的外套吹下来。但是它愈吹,老人愈把外套裹得更紧。
后来,风吹累了,太阳便从云后走出来,暖洋洋地照在老人身上。没多久,老人便开始擦汗,并且把外套脱下。太阳于是对风说道:温和友善永远强过激烈狂暴。
作者:phoenix 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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- 给shagua 网友 -- phoenix - (936 Byte) 2004-10-27 周三, 03:53 (901 reads)
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