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【提上来】一中国average looking old man泡洋妞的故事和心得

愚二
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标题: 【提上来】一中国average looking old man泡洋妞的故事和心得 (4606 reads) 时间: 2007-10-15 周一, 10:57

作者：愚二在海归酒吧发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

hedggie说了故事，然后只提了confidence这个重要因素（是LM都知道）。其它还有啥秘诀，只有靠LMs发问了。

以下开始：
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my own experience (used to love ONS)

chat up 3 girls in the lobby of Grand Hyatt. they are best friends celebrating a brunette's assignment to China. flew to Beijing with the blonde next day; enjoyed home treatment from the brunette next week; hooked up with the other blonde on my next trip.

confidence! confidence! and confidence! this is the only thing missing from local guys. if there is enough interest, i will fill you in on how I corrected the brunette's misconception about Chinese guys.....

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more points below for fun reading
Do not agree with the bias assumption, since i get to know them well and we are still in touch 3 years later.

Confidence rule applies to all nationalities, Not just Chinese men. Women from different racial/country background are attractive to confident and interesting men, onshore or aboard.

I mentioned this particular case because of a conversation about Chinese men on my first date with the brunette. She is beautiful and she knew it (she once turned down the advance from a big name US movie star) Her Chinese colleagues wanted to date her. But no one came clean with his intention. She was saying 'Chinese men were mentally weak...' I proved her wrong with a small experiement.

I am a single sample point that connected with many data points. a few onshore stories for you to make your own judgment??

1. met a London girl at JFK. she traded her first class seat for a business next to me. Before we arrived in Heathrow, I received a invitation to her home and she proved to me that she is a 'real' blonde.

2. a colleague had a party at home when her parents were on a diplomatic mission. she called me for dinner 3 days later. i was stunned to see her younger sister there telling me that she wanted to know me better since i was the most interesting guy there. She is so beautiful that I almost felt guilty witnessiing her transition from an English Lily to brown sugar in a trip to Africa

3. more to provide upon request only

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I am average looking old man

I also found that young professionals in China tend to confuse being arrogant with being confident. Some posts here made me grin for sure.

【愚二：我也想起来了是哪些帖子，也不由得一笑。哈哈】

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i read about a lot of long discussions/analysis at this site. They remind me of soemthing in our business 'people make money, trade; people can not, teach'

I am relaxing between reading business related stuff. Thus I have a bit time and an urge to share some personal experience. Just a spur of moment thing...

I was prepared to receive critism from female readers. So far, very few showed interest. Maybe Chinese women are more mature than I thought after all.

https://www.haiguinet.com/bbs/viewtopic.php?p=1196747&sid=f81127f69b65fc71989374d383c56b44

作者：愚二在海归酒吧发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com

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【提上来】一中国average looking old man泡洋妞的故事和心得 -- 愚二 - (3176 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 10:57 (4606 reads)

说客！上个自己地video，比什么都说明问题~ -- Candyheart - (213 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 15:30 (362 reads)

didn't read. what does look have to do with men? -- suancai - (0 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 13:37 (305 reads)

Confidence is essential, but key point is -- Tom12 - (554 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 10:56 (404 reads)

所谓的“自信”是泡妞理论界最大mystery. 先简单说一句, “自信”就像金钱一样，是一种稀缺资源， -- XiamenTurtle - (731 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 12:02 (1097 reads)

对两位泡妞理论界老大的见解谈谈感想 -- ps2 - (513 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 04:06 (1056 reads)

完全同意：和我想的完全一样。 -- 16261389 - (9 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 21:20 (312 reads)

这根自身的素质也有关 -- ferncrest - (21 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 11:16 (334 reads)

增加自信的方法包括： -- 悍马 - (58 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 01:25 (886 reads)

完全正确！ -- 愚二 - (139 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 09:46 (390 reads)

我从极其不自信到自信心爆棚既是我心目中那些超级美女给我的, 也是那些事后不断来找我取经的男人给我的, YES -- laozhong - (73 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 00:27 (498 reads)

有人说： -- 或是 - (57 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 20:14 (801 reads)

Nice saying hard to achieve CZ we are programmed since birth -- suancai - (0 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 16:10 (324 reads)

a quote form jobs -- 饿死我了 - (459 Byte) 2007-10-16 周二, 04:32 (376 reads)

I have to save this quote -- hedggie - (79 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 23:12 (329 reads)

其实您这话挺难懂， -- 八袋长老 - (77 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 22:20 (438 reads)

Re: 其实您这话挺难懂， -- 或是 - (154 Byte) 2007-10-17 周三, 10:17 (407 reads)

那就在自身上找找问题，也许 -- ferncrest - (0 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 12:43 (317 reads)

[顶] 我觉得要靠天时地利人和，你说的是人和，在香港泡洋妞的就不少（地利），还有天时(未来的天下大同或者英文 -- jimmychai - (24 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 12:21 (444 reads)

yeah, go blonde. go go go :) -- ferncrest - (20 Byte) 2007-10-15 周一, 11:29 (338 reads)

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